Create Relationships

Relationship Patterns

Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:30:00 +0100

Do you attract same kind of people or situations into your life? It is very common for us to find ourselves in almost the exact same scenario in terms of relationships just with a different person! These patterns can sometime hold us back from finding what we really want but sometimes we donât even realise we are doing them or how they have come about. Awareness is the key to breaking them and freeing yourself up to find the relationship you really want.

Hidden Ambivalence

Thu, 21 May 2009 12:50:00 +0100

If you are single and wanting to be in a relationship, how much do you actually want one and are you doing anything to find one? Can you see very clear benefits to staying single? Ambivalence around wanting a relationship is one thing that can actually hold us back from meeting someone if we are not aware of it. Generally single people fit into 2 groups, both might say â I want to be in a relationshipâ but one really means it and the other values something else equally or more importantly than being with someone. For example they might value highly their single lifestyle, their career, their freedom, ability to keep things to themselves or to avoid pain.

First Date Doâs and Donâts

Thu, 21 May 2009 10:10:00 +0100

Why canât I get beyond the first date?

Firstly, donât panic. There are some charming rogues out there, who unfortunately apply the same principles to dating as they might to bird watching or train spotting. It ainât the quality of the dates; itâs the quantity of the dates themselves. They just canât help moving onto the next âchallengeâ and itâs the pulling that counts, not the date itself â whether you have been to bed together or not. All very superficial, but thereâs a fair few of âem out there.

Create Relationships

Relationship Patterns

Hidden Ambivalence

First Date Doâs and Donâts

First Date Doâs and Donâts